You are going to the ball. The game "Fanta", or "Do not take black and white, do not say yes" and "no" - rules and video. Game "Black and White" video. Masha is a super player
My nephew, who will soon be five years old, is busy every day with games that are incomprehensible to me, girls from the USSR. He chases some monsters from space, makes his grandmother sail on an imaginary boat, makes lightsabers out of plasticine and turns into some kind of Bakugan. The elder tribe hangs in the tablet all the time, fishes there and plays racing games, and in his free time hangs in Odnoklassniki. By the way, he is only 9 years old.
Looking back at my past, I understand that despite all these upgrades and new characters that modernity gave us, my childhood was much more interesting and practical. In it, every game was designed to prepare me for adulthood to teach something meaningful and useful.
Today I decided to recall the most popular activities of my cloudless childhood, which, it seems to me, you also played, and refresh these memories with pleasure now. Moreover, behind each of them, as it turned out, lies the real adult reality.
1. Did Madame come to you, or will you go to the ball?
Rules of the game: a company of five to seven people is taken: the more, the more interesting. The host says to each of the players in turn: “Madame came to you, brought you a suitcase. There is a hundred rubles and a note in the suitcase. You were told not to laugh, not to make your lips look like a bow, not to say “yes” and “no”, not to wear black and white. Are you going to the ball?"
The intrigue is that you must answer in such a way as not to violate the rules of the notorious Madame - otherwise, you will be the first to fly out of the game. And you can never repeat. Therefore, you buy a red dress, claim that it suits you, trying not to laugh at this moment and not to answer tricky questions host: "yes" or "no".
The whole point is that the more words and synonyms you know, the more there are 
the probability that you will still be allowed to the ball. It seems to me that this simple but fun game has prepared us to be able to get out of any, the most difficult story.
Violated the rules of the road and you were stopped by a police officer? Try not to say yes or no, don't give away your driver's license, and don't smile from the top of your head. Late for work, and a strict boss pinned you to the wall with tricky questions? And again, Madame will help you find a way out of a difficult situation - remember the rules that you do not wear black or white, and most importantly - you are late because you just returned "from the ball."
2. “Hare, Hare! What time is it? I'm in a hurry for my birthday!"
Rules of the game: at least three people play, otherwise the imagery and interestingness of the game is lost. The driver "calls" the Hare, which the rest needs to run to as quickly as possible. To do this, the participants move away from the leader to a distant but equal distance, and the Hare himself becomes his back to them in order to be an impartial leader. Everyone takes turns asking him a question: “Hare-Hare, what time is it? I'm in a hurry for my birthday, ”and he, without looking at the participant, names the distance that he must overcome.
Only the units of measurement are rather arbitrary: three giant steps - for the entire leg span, Lilliputian steps, in which the heel of one foot should be placed immediately in front of the toe of the other; ant - small steps on toes, and even duck when you move to the Hare in a squat. Whoever reached first, then in chocolate.
This game taught us to appreciate the time that is so lacking in adult life: complete time trouble when you rush to work, to the store, to take care of your child - our steps really look like duck or ant steps, especially if we carry a pile of bags from the supermarket. And that notorious Hare, who is looking at us from above, repeats without turning his head: “Three Lilliputian steps - and that’s it!”. He is not interested in your haste and problems.
3. "Condals - unchained!"
Rules of the game: a team of 10-20 people is divided into two groups, which become a dense line opposite each other, holding hands tightly. The first “wall” shouts in chorus: “Kondals!”, And the second answers: “Shackled! Unchain us!”, and again they hear: “Which of us?”.
Those who are trying to hold back the enemy’s advance choose one of the weakest participants from the neighboring team, because if he cannot break the strong and tenacious connection with his hands with a run, he remains in captivity. If he manages to break the chain, then he takes the command of one person who broke it. This game continues until only one person remains in one of the teams.
I’ll say right away that I didn’t like this game since childhood, because until the ninth grade I was a small, weak girl who, with all her strength, ran up with ant steps towards her opponents with the hope that she could break a strong chain, but every time she “hung” on them, like a sausage on a horizontal bar. And the fact that my classmates didn’t like me very much as an excellent student and took me into the game only for quantity, most often it was me who managed to remain the “last of the Mohicans”. Everyone laughed and pointed a finger in my direction, but I always remembered: you can’t take it by force - take it with your mind or cunning. By the way, this is what helped me gain authority among the entire class.
4. Hot potato
Rules of the game: everyone stands in a line, while the leader begins to throw the ball to the participants in turn. Each time he says one word-object: a pen, milk, a glass, a bedside table, a poop. If it means an edible object, then the one to whom the ball is thrown must catch it, if not edible, then push it away from itself. If the participant catches the ball at the moment when he was shouted: “left foot” or “mouse ashes”, then he lost and must change places with the leader.
If you count how many times I ate those very mouse poop, the head of a crow and the hair of a pig, then you will understand that throws with inedible things in my direction were repeated quite often. It is generally the prerogative of the strong to humiliate the weak and mock them to the general laughter of the crowd. True, sometimes I still managed to guess the host's cunning plan, and I beat off unpretentious objects from my stomach and authority. But I remembered for the future - measure seven times, cut one, and listen carefully to what they tell you. Otherwise, you can miss the most important.
5. Secrets
Game rules: you need to dig in secret place deep hole, and fill it with the most 
precious things that you have - candy wrappers, beads, badges, coins. In general, everything that is of great value to a small child. Then you need to close your "secret" with a piece of glass, remember the place, and come to him the next day. If the treasure is intact, it means that you will have wealth in a future life.
The boys who watched the girls burying secrets in the ground very often tore them apart, ruining our treasure, and took all the valuables for themselves. Maybe that's why none of those who made them succeeded in gaining fabulous money in adulthood.
6. The funeral of a sparrow
Rules of the game: you had to collect dead grasshoppers, butterflies and bugs in the yard, and dig a hole for each of them. We were busy with the whole yard only in order to deliver more “clients” to our impromptu cemetery. The search for the dead was carried out in the most thorough way, and if none were found, then the boys allegedly accidentally crushed bugs and butterflies so that the mini-cemetery would not be “closed” as unnecessary. It was especially valuable to find some dead bird in order to bury it with honors and tears.
Ready-made small graves were showered with flowers, leaves, fenced with a lattice of branches. Every day it was necessary to come to the "cemetery" and pay respects to the fallen "heroes". Nonsense, of course, but it seemed to us that in this way we act not only correctly in relation to the surrounding nature, but also behave like real adults.
7. Parasha
Game rules: very simple. The driver throws some suspicious object at one of the participants. For example, a dirty floor cloth. And the one in whom the "bucket" flies must certainly dodge the shame. If the rag nevertheless fell on your head, know that you are now the object of ridicule until you hit another participant with the same rag.
To be honest, I never liked this game. If only because once a doormat fell on my head before a school disco. The whole class scurried around and called me the most impartial words. It was in the seventh grade, I was a thin "tailed" excellent student, and even without Parasha's help, no one wanted to dance with me, and here it was a total shame!
By the way, this game is still popular today. According to the latest estimates, about 120,000 children of Russian children play Parasha. And the question arises: why did the Kondals die out, the Secrets became uninteresting, and Parasha still lives?
8. Daughters-mothers
Rules of the game: you need to ask your parents for a baby doll, which 
you will begin to raise, groom, cherish and educate. Behave like a real mother: feed the child, give water, spank the pope for faults and learn funny songs with her.
We soon got bored with this game. If only because building houses for the daughter and mother was a long and tedious task, and as soon as the house was ready, interest in the game was quickly lost. My cousin and I found a way to diversify a boring game: my daughter has already grown up and has become a big beautiful girl. She decided to get a job with a promising businessman uncle - a secretary, of course.
The green soft Hare acted as the boss, since I didn’t have Ken at that time. But the most interesting thing was that the interview was especially popular in our game: the girl came to the office to the Hare, began to talk about her rich work experience, and the pot-bellied green boss began to pester her. Like, sleep with me - you will have a job.
The doll, of course, fought off the annoying harassment of the boss, but he was a strong man and took her, despite the resistance. In principle, the game ended there - the girl was ashamed to go to work, and the Hare, who had already picked a raspberry, was not interested in the girl.
Remembering now this sexual game, I am amazed at something else: where did such strange sexual fantasies come from in the minds of young children? After all, I can say for sure that at that time we still did not know exactly how that harassment and other dark deeds took place. Yes, and now it becomes a shame for this - how else did our parents not see through us at that time?
Small but significant conclusions
Of course, fun games my childhood was very much. But I either can't remember their names, or I can't refresh my head on the rules by which they had to be played.
Rubber bands, Cossacks-robbers, Bouncers - all this was also my distant childhood, but very rarely. I ran badly, I was a so-so partisan, I had difficulty jumping on rubber bands, and playing dodgeball added even more bruises, abrasions and inferiority complexes to me.
Anyway, it was beautiful time and wonderful era. Now, looking at the children in the yard, I feel like a prehistoric mammoth who still remembers all these games of the Stone Age. They are not popular now, and few have heard of them in our time.
I am a child of the last generation who grew up without mobile phones, iPads, computers and transformer robots. Instead of "Naruto" I watched Parrot Kesha, Winnie the Pooh and a Kitten named Woof, and the best childhood shows were "Visiting a fairy tale" and "Good night, kids." But you know, the most important thing is that I don’t regret it at all and I’m even especially proud of it. At least my childhood was real. And yours?
The game "Lady Madam" - "Yes and no do not say, black, do not call white": how to play?
- The article will introduce the rules of a fun game based on the conversation of the players for spending time together. The minimum number of players is two people. The maximum number of players is three.
- The game is popular among girls, but boys can also take part. In some schools, preschoolers are encouraged to participate in a game during the interview.
The game "Lady Madam" - "Yes and no, do not say, do not wear black and white": the rules of the game
What is the essence of the game? The game begins with the choice of a leader. A responsible role is assigned to him: to pronounce instructions to the participants and come up with questions that lull their vigilance. After all, the intrigue is that the player uttered the forbidden word.
Minimum number of players - 2 people
Having caught the essence of the game, children can independently come up with tricky questions for the players.
The game begins with the leader's saying:
Yes and no don't say
Do not take black and white
Are you going to the ball?
Player response (options):
- Probably (probably, probably)
- After the facilitator receives the first answer, he continues to ask the participants in the game until he catches someone by forcing him to answer with a forbidden word.
- If a participant in the game uttered one of the "forbidden" words, then he changes roles with another player.
- The three-player game assumes that two of the participants in turn ask questions, and the third player answers them.
The host of the game "Lady Madam" has several strategies to help "catch" the participants
Driver's task: Distract the player with questions that do not need to be answered with "forbidden" words.
The facilitator may suddenly jump to a provocative question and the participant in the game will lose by saying “yes” or “no”.
An example of a conversation between a driver and a player:
Yes and no don't say
Don't wear black and white
Are you going to the ball?
- Maybe
- What will you be driving in?
- In a limousine
- And who will be with you?
- Familiar
- And, most likely, you will wear the most beautiful outfit?
-I will put on
-Will you go fast?
-Slowly
-Will you arrive on time?
- Just in time for the start.
- Will you dance?
- Yes OH!!!
From the video you will learn how the game "Will you go to the ball?".
Video: Challenge "Lady Madame"
The game "Lady Madam" - "Yes and no, do not say, do not wear black and white, will you go to the ball?": a list of questions
- We have considered a simple example of the questions of the game "Young Lady Madame". But there is also a complicated one, which is of interest to those who have succeeded in this game.
- The conditions are preserved, but the list of bans is supplemented by the choice of the driver. For example, a ban on a specific letter: "P" or "H".
The game "Lady Madam" develops the attention of children. Finding a solution that helps improve concentration is possible not only in scientific papers on pedagogy and child psychology. Among the simple and affordable solutions are children's word games.
What questions can the leader ask?
- Are you going to the ball?
- Are you going in a trough?
- Are you going to the ball in an old toilet?
- Are you going to the ball in a carriage?
- Will you ride gray trotters?
- Will you go in a ball gown?
- In pink?
- Will your dressmaker sew it?
- Will you be the best beauty at the ball?
- Will you dance?
- Will you drink champagne?
- Will you have champagne? And what? Soda?
- Would you like a gentleman to dance?
- And will you sing?
- Will you read poetry?
We suggest not to hesitate and move from theory to practice. Moreover, in our article you will find not only classic options answers to the host's questions, but also more complex ones.
- The latter are designed for players who have already developed their attention enough not to pronounce "forbidden" words or not allow new restrictions in the answers.
In the game, the presenter can prohibit the name of a color
What restrictions are possible in the game "Lady Madame"?
- The host "forbids" to name any color. For example, pink or yellow.
- The leader in the saying limits the answers of the players, forbidding the word "never" to be pronounced.
The game is good because children can train in the development of concentration of attention anywhere: on the way from school or kindergarten home, during an excursion or at a break. When doing mindfulness exercises, all three levels of development are important: physical, psychological, and mental.
The child will enthusiastically answer questions only if the adult acting as the leader not only asks tricky questions in anticipation of another mistake, but also invites the child to ask questions himself.
In this case, the child will be included in the game emotionally, without stopping answering simple questions.
In order for the child to more willingly take part in the word game, positive moments and positive emotions are needed.
What to pay attention to?
- It is important that the young player does not overwork during the game. Therefore, the facilitator should ask simple questions at short intervals.
- It will be easier for the child to select the correct answers if the facilitator repeats the same questions. In this case, the "forbidden" words are more easily tracked by "auditory attention".
The game "Lady Madam" will help you have fun
The facilitator should monitor the mood of the child and ask final questions only on the positive, showing creative resourcefulness and patience.
- At what age is it better to start the game "Lady Madam"? You can try to play a word game with a 3-year-old kid. But for an older child (from 4 years old) the game will be more interesting.
- What is the intrigue of the game? Participants need to select answers in such a way that the rules of the notorious Madame are not inadvertently violated. Otherwise, the player is out of the game. Repetitions are among the prohibitions.
- Therefore, the person answering the questions of the presenter must agree with the statements made: he will go to the ball in a blue dress, this color suits him very well. You need to answer, trying not to laugh. If you do not rush and try to answer according to the rules, then the game can drag on for a long time until it becomes difficult for the host to ask his tricky questions.
- The advantage is on the side of the player who knows a lot of words and synonyms. In this case, the player will definitely be “allowed” to the ball.
- The game is useful because it teaches you to get out of any stories, choosing the right answers.
- In support of what has been said, the following example can be given: in case of violation of traffic rules, if a policeman stops you, it is better not to say “yes” or “no”, and also you should not hand over documents to the policeman and smile.
- The same principle of behavior is appropriate if you came to work late and tricky questions followed from your boss.
Having trained in the game "Lady Madam" and following the rules, you can easily find and select answers during serious verbal battles.
Video: CHALLENGE! Young lady-madame CHALLENGE!
Active play
2 to 3 players
Not regulated
Description
"Will you go to the ball?" - word game, mostly suitable for girls. The second name is “The young lady - madam”. The game develops thinking, teaches you to follow your own speech and concentrate your attention.
Rules
The one who will drive is selected and he pronounces the following words: “Yes and no, don’t say, don’t take black and white, will you go to the ball?”. This is where the rules come from. The one who is asked cannot answer “yes” or “no” and call “black” or “white” in response. The task of the driver is to confuse the respondent and ask questions as quickly as possible, changing intonation. Or, for example, first ask questions that do not require such answers. If the answerer made a mistake, then he becomes the driver.
For the more advanced, there is an advanced version with its own rhymes:
- The lady sent 100 rubles
And a box of snot
"Yes" and "no" do not say,
Do not walk in black and white
"R" do not pronounce
Are you going to the ball?
- The young lady sent you a piece of blanket
Told me not to laugh
Sponges do not make a bow,
"Yes" and "no" do not say,
Do not wear black and white.
Are you going to the ball?
You young lady madam
Rolled a suitcase
Told me not to laugh, not to smile,
Do not make lips with a bow, do not say “yes” and “no”,
Do not wear black and white.
Are you going to the ball?
